Dating your wife during separation
When Dinesh became president of The King’s College in 2010, he moved to New York but left his wife in California.Statements from The King’s College board chair Andy Mills indicate Dinesh’s marriage was in trouble in 2010.When they came back together after 12 months apart, they were ready to really commit to the relationship and even decided to start a family.In other marriages, separation -- as opposed to divorce -- becomes a permanent way of life.If you are separated, you are likely finding it difficult to approach and communicate with your spouse.
However, according to World Magazine, on September 28, the week before he filed, he traveled with Denise Joseph to an event where he introduced her to some people as his fiancée.Be clear in your purpose and address the situation head-on. The fact that you are separated testifies that you both need relationship help.Being open about this will help eliminate any doubt and confusion on either part. Interacting with your spouse to set and commit to follow these guidelines will in itself go a long way toward giving you that help.We know of a couple who stayed legally separate but married for some 25 years. It would erode their joint fortune and diminish the money available to their children (they had two).(Indeed, they exist in that state to this day.) The woman, happily living in a townhouse in Miami, plays tennis during the day and spends evenings with her lover, another woman. In the man's case, getting a divorce would only make him available for remarriage, an idea he hardly relishes.
After all, you are still married even though you are apart.